

10.23.2025 — Knowing Love, Knowing Grief
"Be like a tree and let the dead leaves drop." — Rumi Life is an endless dance between holding on to what matters and releasing what no longer serves. It takes courage to do both, to endure through hardship and to let go when your heart feels heavy. Fall is a very melancholic time of the year for me. Two close friends moved on into the void around this time, and my dad’s death anniversary always brings me back to that space between love and forgiveness. He was a complicated m

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Oct 193 min read


50 Years and Another One On Its Way
“Authenticity without empathy is selfish. Authenticity without boundaries is careless.” — Adam Grant My birthday is coming up in five...

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Jul 224 min read


Happy Birthday, Mom
Today would have been my mom’s 91st birthday, and I’ve been thinking about her a lot today. About our relationship. About how differently...

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Jun 223 min read


Falling In Love The Way I've Never Fallen Before
Let the Fumble Stay Fumbled I’ve been fumbled before. It's difficult to come to that realization; it wasn’t my job to recover the ball....

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Jun 193 min read


Drowning in Unhealed Trauma: Fourteen Years Later
The truth about Asal? She was battling a lot of internal demons. She lied, schemed, and hurt people, including me. I’m not here to make...

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Jun 23 min read


For Asal: For Honey عسل
I've been crying uncontrollably the past few days, and I finally figured out why, this is the time of year Asal died. Or, maybe more...

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May 264 min read


Out of the Rough: Love & Golf
"It's a trip, you know? When you're a kid, you—you see the life you want, and it never crosses your mind that it's not gonna turn out...

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May 234 min read


My Dad: A Story of Love, Struggle, and Starting Over
"Every immigrant is a lover of possibility. Every journey to a new land is an act of faith in the unseen, the unknown, and the hope that...

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Apr 284 min read


More #GolfIsLife Content | April 27, 2025
“Golf is the loneliest sport. You’re completely alone with every conceivable opportunity to defeat yourself. Golf brings out your assets...

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Apr 273 min read


Post-Lent Reflection | Earth Day | April 22
"Vanity and pride are different things, though the words are often used synonymously. A person may be proud without being vain. Pride...

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Apr 223 min read

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